Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Une femme d’un certain âge

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A while ago, I started following a blog by Tish Jett, A Femme d’Un Certain Age. Jett, a journalist, moved to France three decades ago. She met and married a Frenchman and established her life there. Over her years in la belle France, she made close friends with a number of Frenchwomen and picked their brains for their style and beauty secrets. Forever Chic is the result of Jett’s insider research and observation.
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As the publicity blurb for the book says:

“For any woman who last saw forty on her speedometer comes a sparkling new primer for aging—the French way—with grace and style. Frenchwomen of a certain age (over forty) are captivating and complex. They appear younger than their years and remain stylish throughout their lives. They look at birthdays as a celebration of a life well-lived and perhaps a good reason to go shopping before they dress to perfection for a celebration of another anniversaire. American-born journalist and blogger Tish Jett has lived among the French for years and has studied them and stalked them to learn their secrets. Exploring how their wardrobe, beauty, diet, and hair rituals evolve with time and how some aspects of their signature styles never change, Jett shows how Frenchwomen know their strengths, hide their weaknesses, and never talk about their fears, failures, or flaws. After all, in France, beauty, style, and charm have no expiration dates!”
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At first, I was afraid Jett was about to trot out the same old platitudes – quality over quantity, understatement over flash – but the book soon got down to business. Jett had plenty of fresh advice to share. Some of it was simple to implement and budget friendly; other advice was for those with substantially deeper poches than average.

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Take some of those low cost ideas for starters: Jett recommends that you boil a loofah mitt before using it to soften the fibers. As one of the skin gurus she consulted in her research said, “skin only understands when you speak to it gently.” Jett also recommends using cornflower water as a gentle toner. To refresh tired eyes, soak cotton pads in it and then chill them before lying down with them on your eyes.
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Some of the higher cost alternatives included a massage that has a list price of 1,100 Euros and that reduced Jett to tears. At one point, the masseuse put her fingers in Jett’s mouth and applied strong pressure to the roof of her mouth. Yuck! A more controversial recommendation is mesotherapy, a no-blade alternative to cosmetic surgery. Jett underwent tiny injections of hyaluronic acid and vitamins into the mid-layer of the skin in the name of research. She touts its ability to stimulate collagen and elastin production and says the results were worth it. As far as the medical community is concerned, however, this is a procedure to approach with great caution. It’s unregulated, and there’s no way of knowing what’s in the practitioner’s needles. There’s no clinical evidence of improvement in patients and some countries have banned the practice.
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And, of course, no book entitled Forever Chic would be complete without a section devoted to fashion. I liked Jett’s recommendation (based on interviews with a host of chic French friends) to invest in a wardrobe that consists of 85% neutrals and 15% fantasy in color, cut, or details. Think of forever chic Frenchwoman and head of the International Monetary Fund Christine Lagarde in one of her neutral suits classic French outfit in grey or camel with a knockout Hermès scarf – the formula certainly holds true. I also enjoyed her account of a session with a personal shopper at that iconic Paris department store, les Galeries Lafayette. She asked the shopper to pull together outfits that would allow a woman to build a classic French wardrobe. The woman presented many variations of outfits on mannequins during her session with Jett. I’d never thought of using a personal shopper in this way, but I was intrigued to possibly try that myself someday.

So if you, like me, are une femme d’un certain âge (oon fam duhn serten asje), I think you’ll enjoy both Jett’s book and her blog for fashion and flair with a French touch.

Saturday, November 2, 2013

Le hangar des oubliés

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One of our best memories of our late summer trip to Québec City was a free Cirque du Soleil event down at the harbor front. I’ve always wanted to see a Cirque du Soleil performance and here was a chance to do so for free. Founded in 1984 by a pair of street performers from Montréal, the troupe may be our best export since maple syrup. The concierge at our hotel told us about it and we were able to get there our final night. The concierge had told us to get there early, as there were no advance tickets and seating was first-come-first serve. We got there about an hour and a quarter prior to show time and the queue was already enormous, snaking on and on. At one point we noticed a curious break in the line. As we got closer, we saw that everyone was waiting politely so as not to block a sidewalk. It was a distinctly Canadian moment.

chemins 2Looking at the length of the line, we wondered if we would get in. In the time that we waited for the show to open, the line grew and grew, probably doubling. Everyone was in a lighthearted, festive mood as we waited. Finally, the strobe lights came on, music began to play, and the crowd began to surge forward.
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We hustled to the entrance, trying to keep a grip on one another so we wouldn’t get separated in the sea of people. (Have I mentioned that I hate crowds?) All of the 5,000 stadium seats were taken and we were urged forward, forward ever closer to the stage. At first, I wasn’t excited by my standing-room-only status, but then I realized that we were among the last people who had been allowed through the gate. Suddenly, I realized that I was one of the lucky ones.
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The show was the penultimate event in a five-year contract between Cirque du Soleil and the city. Over 150,000 people had queued up to see the show just as we had in the summer of 2013, and about half as many again were turned away from the gate. It’s possible that a new contract will bring another spectacle back to the Vieux Port next year, but at a cost to the city of $6.5 million CDN a year in a time when budgets are being trimmed, this is far from a certainty.
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The show was entitled Le hangar des oubliés (luh hangar dayz oob-lee-ay), which is translated as “the harbor of lost souls,” even though oubliés literally means "the forgotten." Frankly, the plot was a little thin but the show was spectacular. Our position on the ground was no hardship in terms of viewing the show. For each act, the focus of attention shifted around the auditorium, and many times it was up in the air as the acrobatic fantasy unfolded around us. I’d never seen, or even imagined, anything like it. The only thing we couldn’t agree on was which act was the best.
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If Cirque du Soleil comes to town where you are, go, even if you have to wait for hours to see a standing-room-only show. Cirque du Soleil – World’s Away